Week 8

Every marriage has its own set of problems no marriage is perfect. When a person decides to marry someone they are ultimately deciding what set of problems they want to deal with for a while. I think that is very interesting. As i was doing the reading for this week I couldn't help but think about communication. Communication about the problems that a relationship is ensuing is huge. I think that in order to be able to overcome these problems we must learn to communicate effectively. Communication can set the tone for a lot of things. If we learn to communicate using non harsh startups typically we are able to overcome things a lot easier. If we communicate rude or demeaning thoughts towards our spouse you can bet you will be in for an argument. I think that if we are able to learn how to communicate things that bother us, to our spouses, then we will be able to have less heated arguments. Blame won’t be placed on someone. Most of the time the problem will be talked out and a negotiation will be made. I learned that it’s all about how we communicate our problems to one another. Also, the way we communicate how to fix the problems can lead to happiness as well. Communication is Key to a successful relationship.